NEVER USE COMPETITION AS BASE FOR FRIENDSHIP

The Conciousness from within

A message to young sisters. Never use competition as Base. The disappointments are mostly around the corner. So was the advice to one client who actually asked about me personally. I promised her I will write this piece.
Being me is the key. Talking about me and not others is another key.
Acknowledgement of mistakes made and learn from them is a level higher that lift up others too.
Acknowledgement of what others do good gives a good feeling and makes you be far away from a jealousy syndrome.

When I speak to most of you I see that you really try your best to improve in whatever you are doing. Mostly I am asked how I manage to keep my motor moving, and where I get the energy despite the fact that I have deep challenges.

👉🏿I never compare myself with anyone

👉🏿I am at that age where I have had so much experience such that some of these things in life do not matter anymore,
nor determine whom I have become or will become.

👉🏿I came from nothing and I appreciate most of the things I come across. I value what I touch and treat that with a full heart not half.

👉🏿I lived and still live a hard life not so many know about, because what I hide inside is spoken out through my body. Those who know me can tell.

👉🏿 I am working hard to go for what that body and mind deserve.

The time I spend not discussing other people is spend working hard to maintain my mental health balance. Its soo important you know.

Fighting for the inner health of my kids is an untouchable treasure I know I have set out there. It was my body that worked for those 10 years. Day and night, sleepless nights. The aim was for them to fight diseases like today. To overcome situations where they may have to be dependant on medication.

Yes I did sacrifice that body. But with true inner PEACE. I will go back there I promise. I am not looking back but I to the future.

The Feedback from my children in the future and even now when I see them fit every day is a confirmation of the good work my big hormonal body has put out there.

Published by Bereka Ne Mbereko

Muchaneta was now living in the Netherlands, far away from home and her extended family. Perhaps it was the distance or the time away from her roots that led her down a path to reconciling her traditionally African approach to child rearing with the new modern European scientifically tested advice she was consistently receiving. In doing so she began to craft out a unique path for herself and her growing family.

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